Sacred Grove
Psychic Medium
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I contact someone specific?
The more you can be open to whoever is going to come through for you, the better. If you focus too hard on wishing for a particular spirit, it can sometimes “cloud the airways” and make it harder for messages to come through. That being said, you can, of course, send out loving messages asking for contact, and they will be heard. Whoever communicates, however, is there because that is who you need to hear from at that particular time. Sometimes, a spirit may bring a message that only they can deliver, and it is important to try to focus on the message, not as much on our preconceived ideas of what that message should be or who it should be from. I will open myself to whoever comes on your behalf. If the spirit you wish to hear from is not the one who comes through, it does not mean that that particular loved one does not love you or hear you. Our loved ones lead extremely full and busy existences on the other side; sometimes they are simply working on a level where communication is limited due to the nature of the work they are doing for their own soul growth. Other times, they defer to whoever has the greatest capacity to deliver the message that you as a soul need to hear at this point in time. This never means they do not love and watch over us.
Do My Loved Ones Hear Me?
Yes! Your love and prayers are like beautiful chords of music, the peals of an exquisite bell, that they hear and appreciate. And they do answer! Look for signs in your dreams, and in your waking life, for their messages of love and support. It’s just a different way of communicating. Once you awaken to it, you will be amazed at how clear their communication is.
Do they watch me in the shower?
Absolutely not! Our loved ones are privy to our deepest, love filled thoughts and wishes, but they most definitely do not watch us in the bathroom or anywhere else we would not give them permission to be. The relationship is very respectful and love filled. They are also way too busy growing and evolving in Spirit to “hover” around, monitoring our days. They do, however, check in frequently and are aware of our concerns and life progress.
What is the difference between a psychic and a medium?
All mediums are psychic, but not all psychics are mediums. And we all have a bit of the psychic in us. Learning to trust our intuition, our “gut” feelings, is a form of psychic development. Mediums are able, through a variety of sentient gifts, to receive messages from the very high frequencies in which spirits exist. I sometimes explain to clients that the way dogs can hear special whistles, unable to be heard by human ears, is similar to the way mediums can attune to these higher spirit frequencies.
What if the spirit that comes through isn’t one I know or remember very well?
Sometimes a spirit will come through with great detail, and we can’t immediately confirm the information because perhaps the loved one is a grandparent we don’t entirely remember, or even a great grandparent, etc. In these cases, it is especially important to write down or record the details, so that they can be confirmed through living relatives who might have the answers, or even by looking through old photo albums, etc. I remember one client receiving a beautiful message from a great grandmother, with a specific reference to a hat she wore which was confirmed from an old photo in a family album. It turned out the client was the spitting image of the great grandmother, and this spirit was watching over her descendant with great joy and pride. Spirits don’t come through haphazardly or randomly, there is always reason and purpose. It is up to us to decipher the messages and apply them to our lives. Sometimes, an actual spirit guide will come through, which is always amazing.
Why do the messages from my loved one come through you?
The messages come through me, not because your loved ones prefer me to you, but because they know I can “speak” their language. Because I am clairsentient, clairaudient, clairvoyant, and claircognizant, I am able to function like a translator and receive the information they are trying to communicate. My ultimate goal, especially after multiple sessions with you, is for you to be able to recognize and receive messages from Spirit on your own, and to proceed with more love and light on your life’s spiritual path, independently of the time you spend with me as a psychic medium.
What if I don’t recognize some of the details that come through in a medium reading?
I love this question. Having trained with some of the world’s greatest mediums, I know what it is to be on the receiving end of messages from Spirit during a good session with a medium. It can feel a little like being a deer stuck in the headlights, and all knowledge just empties out of your brain! I will give you guidelines before your session to help with this. It is also important to bring pen and paper, or something to record with, so that you remember the details that come through, as I will hold only a very temporary memory of the experience. So many times I have brought through specific details from loved one in Spirit, and the client has no idea at the time what that particular word, item, or image means. 99% of the time I receive a phone call or email the next day, week, or sometimes even a month later, in which the client excitedly tells me they realized what the detail was, and how perfectly significant and personal it was! Spirits work very hard to bring the information they bring; none of it is random. And they are persistent-if I don’t translate the message correctly, they will present it in various other forms until they are absolutely sure you understand what they are trying to communicate.
What if what you saw in the tarot cards doesn’t happen in the time frame you told me, or at all?
Tarot card readings (or any other kind of divinatory tool) are simply giving us a psychic “snapshot” at a given moment in time. If things arise in a reading that indicate a certain turn of events, that doesn’t necessarily mean that what shows up in the cards is set in stone. We all have free will, and all that we do, every day of our lives, impacts the progress of our life’s journey. If someone gets a great reading that indicates a healthy, long life, and so then decides they are super human and behaves recklessly and in unhealthful ways, chances are that reading will change. If changes are indicated during a reading, but those changes are not tended to or nurtured, then odds are they won’t happen or won’t “stick” for the long run. Guidance and support from spirit guides and angels are not meant as “quick fixes”. We, as spiritual human beings, have to do the work to make our own progress, it can’t be done for us. Time, also, is relative and sometimes hard to translate effectively. What may feel endless here, in this dimension, is the equivalent of an “instant” in the spiritual plane. It’s important to measure time in terms of your own growth and positive development, rather than in an exact number of days or weeks.
